The non-scientist me did NOT want to work on this year's project. I would have if I was needed. But since Rick was more than willing to take on this project from start to finish, I graciously bowed out and let the 2 of them go to town.
The controlling mom in me felt guilty for not participating. Every time I saw the board and the lettering and the construction paper I felt guilty that I wasn't putting it all together or instructing what step was next.
And then it hit me. They need this. My role as mom is fulfilled in so many ways throughout the day. And Rick's role as dad is as well, but they need this. This bonding time. This thing that belongs to only them. This memory to share forever. Science doesn't have to be my thing. It should be Rick's thing.
And I am more than ok with that. I am at peace that I didn't have to hypothesize and conclude and list materials. And I am thrilled that our son formed special memories with his awesome dad.
Win-Win.
Excellent points, and that picture of Loudoun is precious. But, you left me hanging: can fruits and veggies make electricity?
ReplyDeleteI am so with you on this one. Math and science, all Jess. Arts and crafts, all me. :)
ReplyDeleteI just found your blog :-)
ReplyDeleteAnd far out-- my son did pretty much this exact experiment for his school's science fair this year, too! And yup, it was totally a daddy-son endeavor. I bought the posterboard and glue, though ;-) Totally agree that this "division" is win-win. Some things are "daddy" things and some are "mommy" things, and that's perfectly okay!
-Helly